Of all the 66 books in the library of the Bible, why would I choose to start the new year in Habakkuk, that mini book tucked in the Old Testament between Nahum and Zephaniah? And what’s with these names anyway?

The reason I chose to start my Bible reading and journaling in Habakkuk this year is because I was so fascinated by the text my pastor, Pastor CJ Johnson, used from Habakkuk in his New Year sermon. I imagine you’re wondering like I was, “why, why, why would one use Habakkuk as a New Year sermon outline?” But Pastor’s message was beautiful perfection. Read on.

Habakkuk was nicknamed “the questioning prophet.” And in my Bible (ESV), the scripture headings describe Habakkuk’s complaints to God. Complaining to God!? Isn’t that some kind of sin? I don’t think so. If you magnify in on scripture as a whole, you’ll identify several individuals who were bold and authentic and audacious with God (think Moses, David, Peter). God is big enough to take our complaints, questions, and emotions; He welcomes them even.

Historically, Habakkuk lived prior to the Babylonian exile. The book of Habakkuk was written c. 612-588 B.C., according to my Life Application Study Bible. So, Habakkuk, questioning prophet, here, is crying out to God for help. He’s complaining that God isn’t hearing and seeing and saving. Faithful as always, God answers Habakkuk’s questions with a vision of what will take place during the Babylonian exile.

I know, I know; this blog is getting a bit teach-y. So, let’s get back to Pastor’s sermon. After God’s answer, Habakkuk questions God further. He was persistent. At the end of Habakkuk’s second complaint, he declares to God in Habakkuk 2:1 (ESV),

“I will take my stand at my watchlist and station myself on the tower, and look out to see what he will say to me, and what I will answer concerning my complaint.”

In the days of the prophets, the word “watchtower“ was used to refer to the prophets’ attitude of expectation (Isaiah 21, Jeremiah 6, Ezekiel 3). And here is where Pastor masterfully tied this passage into our New Year message. Using Habakkuk’s statement, Pastor challenged us to:

•ELEVATE our perspective

•EXTEND our perspective

•EXPAND our perspective

Doesn’t that just light your heart on fire? Setting goals, making resolutions, and daily decisions can all benefit from perspective elevation, extension, and expansion. And these three perspective shifts can be used in all areas of our lives—spiritual, physical, mental, financial, relational, and emotional!

As I read through Habakkuk, I got to the last three verses of the very last chapter, chapter 3. These last 3 verses come at the tail end of Habakkuk’s prayer-response to God, and record his praise to God even though he knows the devastation on the horizon.

Verse 17 begins “THOUGH the fig tree should not blossom…and the fields yield no food…and there be no herd in the stalls, YET will I rejoice in the Lord… (emphasis mine). Here, there’s a cause and effect—though devastation is coming, yet, still, even so, I will rejoice. Habakkuk is choosing joy.

He is choosing to focus on the miracles rather than the miseries.

Finally, Habakkuk brings his prayer to a close by acknowledging that God is his strength in this poetic prayer:

“God, the Lord, is my strength; he makes my feet like the deer’s; he makes me tread on my high places” (3:19).

And just like Habakkuk, I can be confident that if I keep my perspective elevated and focused on God, He will keep me surefooted and steadfast. For someone terrified of heights, this verse is a promise I carry close.

So, how about it this year? How about joining me and my friends at Hearth & Hive in shifting our perspectives this year? What does that look like for you?

Join me in choosing to mark year 2024 by the miracles rather than the miseries. 💛

On November 1, I sat on a rock overlooking the creek at twilight. In the woods, alone with the woodpeckers and squirrels and God, I rolled out a leaf-lined carpet of invitation to read through 2 Samuel with me this month.

And what a first week it’s been! For our little family, it’s been one drive by after another. My sweet friend, MK, defines attacks from the enemy as drive-bys. I love it—the term, not the attack. This week has been gut-level devastating, leaving us wondering what in the world God’s trying to teach us. We’re broken. But it’s in this place of brokenness that we know we’re in the right place, doing what we’re supposed to be doing. If we weren’t a threat to the enemy, he wouldn’t be attempting so many drive-bys. We’re down, but we’re not out.

It’s also from this place of brokenness that grace shines through. We’ve been blessed immensely and repeatedly from a good friend. We’ve witnessed miracles. We’ve experienced God’s goodness and provision.

I was telling a neighbor yesterday how it feels we’re drowning, and every time we sneak our noses up for a sip of air, we’re pulled back under mid-breath.

In the cracks and hard to breathe moments, God’s light shines in so beautifully. And we find hope again.

Even during this hard week, this stormy week, God has taught me so much through 2 Samuel. The lessons are powerful—and always timely. I shared on social media some questions from 2 Samuel 1:4 this morning. Take a moment and reflect on this passage. Ask yourself from what are you running? What do you fear?

Purpose.

These days I seem to be bombarded with the question of purpose. And it’s a struggle, really, because I’m quickly approaching year 40, and still haven’t decided what I’m supposed to be when I grow up. I’ve read Rick Warren’s The Purpose Driven Life…more than once. Guess what? I still don’t know my definitive purpose.

More than two decades ago, I overheard a mother share that her daughter lived life to its fullest. Something happened that moment—I purposed to live my life to the fullest. That didn’t mean that I’d master everything, but I would try to experience as much as possible. Over the next two-plus decades, I’ve worn many unique hats and have experienced some wild adventures. I’ve tucked many, many skills into my life tool belt, but, for the past couple years I’ve been disturbed by this feeling that I don’t have one specific purpose. Because I determined to live a full life, learning and studying as much as possible, I have much to give, but am overwhelmed by not knowing which particular area to serve. Do I write? Serve in music? Provide hospitality? Do I create art to sell? Go on mission trips? Feed the homeless? Sew, knit, and crochet for the unclothed? I don’t know. It’s exhausting.

But what I do know is this: I don’t have to be remarkable at any of those things to be used. So I’ve decided,

I want to be wax. Beeswax.

Wax? What? Why? Beeswax is phenomenal. A diligent, conscientious beekeeper knows the enormous value of beeswax for both the hive and the keeper. In the beekeeping world, it’s often said (and meant!) that wax is like gold. It’s utterly essential to a thriving colony. But—hear this—wax doesn’t serve just one purpose. Wait. What?! There’s actually something with multiple purposes that is invaluable? I want to be like that, like wax.

To better perceive the value of wax, an understanding of wax production is necessary. Do you know how bees produce wax? This is mind blowing. Our Creator’s intricate details just shout His glory! [Yes, I’m passionate—about bees and Jesus!] Each worker bee has eight wax producing glands (4 pairs) on her abdomen. But get this! To produce just 1 pound of wax, the bees have to consume 8-12 pounds of honey and visit over 30 million flowers! Hive temperature needs to be 86-98.6 degrees Fahrenheit; through über cool (pun intended) behaviors, honeybees keep the hive at a constant 93-97 degrees Fahrenheit year round. They’re un-bee-lievable, but, then again, nature always points back to the magnificence of Creator God!

Survival, for the honeybee, is dependent upon wax. Bees use wax cells to raise brood, store honey and other nutrient resources, and to make queen cells. See? One essential substance, but that one substance has multiple uses. I want to be wax—willing to be used where needed.

Bees need wax to survive, but the excess wax is like gold to we beekeepers as well. Again, this repurposed wax has multiple valuable uses.

A few months ago, as I was really wrestling with this concept of purpose, I went for a longer-than-usual prayer walk. Crossing 111th Street to find my trail, my Abba whispered in a uniquely creative way, “You know that old, dirty, black, broken, used up, dried out wax you’ve been rendering? Well, that’s how I work too. I take what you felt was too broken, too used up, and I refine that and make you pure and usable like gold.”

And I paused, right there along 111th Street, tears pouring, because this, this, I understood. My God is personal, and He’s marvelously creative, and He chases after us in ways we know could only be Him. That ugly, black, useless wax, when melted and rendered, becomes a pure, golden product with indispensable value. It really is like gold.

There are so many ways to render beeswax, but they all require heat and melting. Remember that conversation I had with God, there along 111th Street? He wasn’t finished teaching me. Standing there, because who could move when God has just blown their mind, He continued, “when you render wax, it’s kind of like how I test and refine you. Instead of a solar (sun) wax melter, you’re SON melted. Proven pure and genuine, you, too, are ready to serve.” Awestruck. Really, though, “awestruck” doesn’t even come close to how I felt. Seen. Loved. Valued.

1 Peter 1:7 (MSG) “Pure gold put in the fire comes out of it proved pure, genuine faith put through this suffering comes out proved genuine.”

Zechariah 13:9 (NIV) “…I will put into the fire; I will refine them like silver and test them like gold.”

After honey harvest a few weeks ago, I made a solar wax melter out of items I found at home. And my scrappy contraption worked brilliantly! The black, broken wax, melted (changed form) by the sun, filtered through cheesecloth, and hardened into pure, golden wax. One of the most vital uses for rendered wax is using it directly in the hive. I paint melted wax on frame foundation to give the bees a boost when they’re drawing comb. This stimulates their natural production (see any life application parallels here?). Other neat purposes for beeswax are candlemaking, cosmetics, furniture polish, encaustic painting, food storage wraps, and many others.

Malachi 3:2-4 (MSG) “He’ll be like white-hot fire from the smelter’s furnace….He’ll take his place as a refiner of silver….refine them like gold and silver, until they’re fit for God, fit to present offerings of righteousness.”

This certainly sounds like a SON melter to me! Without heating and skimming, there’s no purifying. Isaiah says, “I’ve refined you, but not without fire. I’ve tested you like silver in the furnace of affliction” (48:10 MSG). Going through affliction in the refining process is painful, but this is exactly where the miracle happens. And staying steadfast, you’re proved pure.

Job 23:10 (NIV) “But he knows the way that I take; when he has tested me, I will come forth as gold.”

That prayer walk conversation with God on a pink sunset filled sky in May wasn’t an isolated event. Since that moment, purpose has been synchronously popping up, always a God-whispered affirmation that I can be like wax.

From the moment our little family walked through the doors 3-ish years ago, our church has felt like home. I’ve never, ever felt more of a sense of belonging than I felt that first time (and still feel) at Northview Church. That place truly is a house of miracles, but that’s a story for another cup of tea some other time. This past Sunday, sitting there in the front row next to strangers who felt like family, Pastor CJ announced his title for the message, “I’ve Got Options.” My ears perked up! Options! I started scribbling his words as quickly as I could until I heard the phrase, “purpose anxiety.” My heart started racing, and I could only sit there for a few beats stunned. Options. Purpose. Purpose anxiety. This new term very much described my ongoing battle to find my purpose. Attention rapt, I captured as much of Pastor CJ’s message as I could. Because here’s the thing—when you ask your God for something specific, and it aligns with HIS purpose, expect it.

Before quoting Pastor CJ, I asked his permission to share some of his message here, but here’s what I didn’t tell him:

Early Sunday morning, I prayed specifically for my pastor, that he would be willing to be a vessel for Holy Spirit and that the Spirit would speak through him. And, y’all, God heard and answered in a mighty way. I know that I’m not the only one with purpose anxiety and the need to know “I’ve got options.”

Before outlining 4 ways the apostle Paul guides us via Colossians 3-4 in knowing our purpose (or options), Pastor CJ stated something I’ll never forget, “if I do the small things like they’re big things, He’ll do the big things like they’re small things.” Just wow. Our God is that good.

I’ve been thinking of the “guardrails,” as Pastor CJ terms Paul’s guidelines to knowing purpose, as being in the SON melter. These are the action steps I can take to prove genuine and ready for my purpose:

• Be ruled by peace
• Be rooted in scripture
• Be reinforced by praise
• Be regulated by honor

Johnson, CJ. July 23, 2023. Northview Church.

Just as the filthy, useless wax is filtered, to know my purpose, I need to filter everything through feelings of peace, scripture, and discerning what honors God. And all the while, I praise because “I’ve got options” and I can be like wax.

Oh! Something remarkable—both honey and beeswax have an indefinite shelf life. Gold, indeed.

To Pastor CJ, Thank you for your willingness to allow me to share your words, thoughts, and teaching creativity. I appreciate you sharing your heart and being used by God to teach and grow us. Know this, like Esther, you’re here for such a time as this, and when the enemy fights the hardest—that’s how you know you’re exactly where you should be, doing exactly what you should be doing. Thank you for enduring the afflictions to be proven pure and genuine. I’m grateful. Blessings to you & your family, Lalia

In just under a month, spring will breathe her breath of life into winter stiff soil and bones. Already, snowdrops have opened their bowed, bell heads, and dandelion buds have sprung from cold earth. Winter is hard. Especially in the beehive. Honeybees have these incredible and instinctual survival skills, but sometimes nature’s course still brings devastation. And it’s heartbreaking (ask me how I know).

If the bees survive winter, in spring, they’ll break their cluster and begin the busy work for which they’re known. Queen bee will begin laying a couple thousand eggs each day, and the worker bees will start nurse and foraging duties. The hive quickly expands. If the queen runs out of space (comb) to lay eggs, the hive will prepare to swarm.

Swarming is when half the hive leaves with the queen to look for a hive with more space. The bees will have made swarm cells in the current hive to begin the process of raising a new queen. In beekeeping, we try to prevent swarming by splitting hives or expanding the hive to give the bees more space. It’s a delicate dance, though, between giving too little space or too much space. If too much space is offered, the hive is left defenseless. So, beekeeping requires diligence. As my mentor advised—

“Get in the hive and think like a bee. Be a bee-keeper rather than a bee-haver.”

J. Cripe

I’ve become a bit bee obsessed, and have learned so many life lessons from my bees. As spring approaches and bees begin to swarm, my blog, here, is going through a swarming process. There has been a name change, and content will reflect the new name. I’m a multi-faceted, multi-passioned soul, and I’ve felt limited to writing about just a few topics. Instead, I want to welcome you to my hive and invite you to sit at my hearth to listen and learn, share and sip tea, inspire and be inspired.

With the help of my sweet honeybees, I plan to re-stock my Etsy shop Hearth&HiveMarket, a place you’ll find bee items, cozy things, whimsical wonders for and from the hearth and hive. So, you see, swarming can be a good thing—even for bees and hives. It’s natural. Allowing my blog to let go of old things to create space for the new is exciting and inspiring.

What is something or some things you need to release and let swarm? Or what are those things which you need to cling to more tightly? If you’re comfortable sharing, I’d love to hear your share, your thoughts, your ideas here at my hearth. ❤️

That sweet whisper. It’d felt like ages since I heard His voice, months of aching silence. Then, the first verse I read that day, the day after I’d intentionally stilled and tried to reorient myself: Psalm 83:1 “God, don’t shut me out; don’t give me the silent treatment, O God” (Msg). And there along the edge I paused and scratched out this prayer—“please! Please not now. I need you like I need breath. I need to hear you.”

I distractedly read the rest of the psalm. At the end, I breathed, “Was there even anything hopeful there?” So, I focused and re-read the words. No, nothing. Nothing uplifting at all. I curiously turned that tissue paper thin page. There, written in red ink, my penmanship, “Animals in heaven.” I’d scribbled those words across sacred text in 2017.

Psalm 84 describes God’s house, His home—animals dwelling there. Since Bentley’s puppy days, I’ve begged Abba-God to take her to heaven when her days here are finished, and I’ve had simple, childlike trust that He would. Even more so now. As I soul-howl-whispered those words, “please not now; I need to hear you” along the edge of Psalm 83, to turn over the papyrus holy and HEAR immediately from my soul father is no coincidence.

This is a love letter, a beautiful, personal one just for me.

A lesson here: sometimes we just have to turn the page and trust the unknown, the uncharted. Because He loves us oh so much and is only ever, ever kind.

Love letters.

God sends me turtle love letters. It’s remarkable how I look back through my life journey and notice the turtles along the way. Psalm 84, a Korah psalm, details how our lives are roads which God travels (vs. 5-7). Just pause here and marvel at that. It’s exquisite. Our roads aren’t always easy, but He never takes shortcuts. My God, my Jesus, is the road which I journey, but He also travels my life road. And along the way, He sends me turtles like road signs reminding me I’m on the right path, the true way home.

I’ll share three of my love letter turtles:

Eleven months ago, Lily Willow asked us to take her to the ocean for her 5th birthday. We arranged to beach camp on North Carolina’s Outer Banks. On a Sunday morning, early, we took the ferry to and from Okracoke. During the return trip, Rudy and Lily walked to the back of the ferry to feed cherries to the seagulls. But I felt a tug to stay rooted in my place near the front, searching for marine life, almost trance-like. Though it was sea turtle nesting season and we’d seen nests along the shore, I’d just overheard the captain sharing with a passenger that sea turtle sightings were uncommon. That time alone, pointing forward, onward, I spent in prayer, silently asking my God-Creator for a sea turtle.

And just there, in the flickering sun rays among rocking waves, a golden belly and flippers! Sea turtle. Love letter.

Speechless in awe, tears leaked from joy and a hint of disbelief. Why, why is there an ever-present shadow of unbelief? I mean, the captain, who has spent much of his life charting these waters, had just stated that this was rare. But not with my God! Standing there near the rail, leaning over as far as I dared, staring across ocean, I was humbled in gratitude. Heart nearly bursting, I asked, “Did you really just send me a sea turtle?!” In that sweet, still, sacred way that only God-spirit can commune with soul-spirit, He answered, “Why wouldn’t I send you a sea turtle. You asked me for one. I love you wider and deeper than this entire ocean. How could I not send my daughter what her heart so longed for?” Love letters.

Nearby our home, there’s a little trail, winding around a pond, where the girls and I walk nearly every day. This particular day was weary, and I felt lost, lonely, and overwhelmed. Always, always, Lily and I search for turtles sunning on submerged logs or rocks. But that day, coming down the hill on the backside of the pond, water stretched out in front of us, sun illuminated dozens of little turtle heads poking up from rippled water into air. Breath. And I heard Him, then, clearly—“You are known. You are loved. You are held.”

Love letters. It’s been almost a month ago now that we met my sister, Leah, to hike New River Gorge. The wild, the nature, the lush life was exhilarating! Back home for a few days, Rudy began having episodes of shortness of breath and extreme fatigue, unusual for him. A couple days later, I found a tick deeply embedded into his side. Two days later, he developed fevers and a rash. On a Sunday morning, first thing, I drove him to immediate care, a bit of residual trauma from his aortic aneurysm weighing on me. He was exhibiting many of the same symptoms.

There! Just up ahead, at the roundabout, was a dark lump—a turtle, head up, unafraid!

Immediately, I knew. God placed her there and all would be well. Then, anxiety sweeps again as we sit there, Rudy pouring sweat like he’s just emerged from ocean, blood pressure much too low, medical staff concerned. What if? What if it’s another aneurysm? But the turtle, I remembered the turtle, a signpost, a love letter.

Rudy was eventually diagnosed with Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, treated, and has recovered. My God wanted me, needed me, to know He was there journeying my life road along with me. Love letters. Postcards. Turtles.

The closing verses of Psalm 84 describe God’s generosity as being lavish. Yes. Yes He is. His gifts, His love are lavish and reckless. He’s crazy in love with us.

Sea turtles are fascinating creatures with much to teach us. Are you aware that female sea turtles travel up to 4000 miles, to return to the very shore on which they hatched, to nest? On our journey, our life-road, when we find ourselves miles from home, there is always the ability to reorient and ride the current which is Abba-God back home, back to Himself. He never leaves. We are always, always able to return home.

With Bentley’s recent and unexpected diagnosis of untreatable liver failure, I’ve cried so many tears, blazing hot, salt water rivers down my face. This part of my journey feels lonely, treacherous, and heart wrenching. It feels like I’m walking, crawling really, alone, helpless, afraid, and unseen. All those salty tears, like ocean water, though? Not one is wasted or unseen.

Did you realize that because a sea turtle’s diet is ocean-salty and the sea turtle only drinks salt water and because all of this salt isn’t healthy for the turtle’s body, the sea turtle, magnificent being, excretes the excess salt from the eyes? Sea turtles cry. They were created with this intricately beautiful ability. And as I learned this, I knew (know) that I, my tears even, am seen and held and loved. He is my current carrying me home.

And sending me turtle love-postcards along our journey.

Helpless. That has been the predominant feeling since news of war reached our little home. And with the ashes of bombed rubble comes ashes of Ash Wednesday and Lent’s beginning. Suffering. Sacrifice. Knowing Christ in His passion. But what can you give when you’ve given all? How can you wrap your tired arms around aching hearts from across oceans? How can you feed, clothe, bandage wounds, and love souls who have left everything to save their lives? Helpless. But not hopeless. Never ever hopeless.

Let’s take a look at Isaiah 58:6-12 (MSG)

“This is the kind of fast day I’m after: to break the chains of injustice, get rid of exploitation in the workplace, free the oppressed, cancel debts.

What I’m interested in seeing you do is: sharing your food with the hungry, inviting the homeless poor into your homes, putting clothes on the shivering ill-clad, being available to your own families. Do this and the lights will turn on, and your lives will turn around at once. Your righteousness will pave your way. The GOD of glory will secure passage. Then when you pray, GOD will answer. You’ll call out for help and I’ll say, ‘Here I am.’

“If you get rid of unfair practices, quit blaming victims, quit gossiping about other people’s sins, If you are generous with the hungry and start giving yourself to the down-and-out, Your lives will begin to glow in the darkness, your shadowed lives will be bathed in sunlight. I always show you where to go. I’ll give you full life in the emptiest of places—firm muscles, strong bones. You’ll be like a well-watered garden, a gurgling spring that never runs dry. You’ll use the old rubble of past lives to build anew, rebuild the foundations from out of your past. You’ll be known as those who can fix anything, restore old ruins, rebuild and renovate, make the community livable again.”

Read that slowly twice more. Do you see it? Can you feel it? Do you hear God’s words echoing down through the ages to right now, this very moment? Hope. Hope for we, who feel so hopeless, uncertain of what we are able to do, and hope for those refugees who have left all they have. We, during this fasting-Lenten season are simply called to obedience, giving, sharing, calling out for help.

Ann Voskamp writes this prayer:

“By Grace, today I will fast from apathy and indifference because we are not here to make an impression but to make a difference. Today I will be the hands and feet of Christ everywhere I can because He’s given me His heart so I can. We repent for not caring for the widow and orphan, but caring more about looking like we’re keeping up with Jones’s, because You say faith like this is a sham, a fake, a fraud.”

In a moment, I’ll share some ways you can help directly, indirectly, financially, and in other ways. Giving all isn’t solely giving money; sacrifice and generosity is a heart matter. When you offer your whole heart to Jesus, your time, energy, resources, talents, He will pave the way. He is the way. But first…

First, I’d like to introduce you to two dear Ukrainian friends and allow them to share a bit of their current, unique stories and concerns. These missives are in their own words.

Please welcome Vita! Vita and her husband, Dema, live in Kiev with their young daughter Daniela. This sweet couple attended Kiev Wesley Bible College where my father taught in the early 2000s. Vita often translated for our family and helped me find clothing (it’s hard to find plus-sized women’s clothes in Ukrainian markets!). Let’s lean in close and listen to Vita’s heart.

“Dear friends,

We left Kiev yesterday. With small pack packs and we are heading west. We spent 7 days and nights in the basement hoping it would stop soon. But it is getting worse and worse, explosions are closer and closer, buildings are being destroyed around us.
Vorsel is 30 km from Kiev and is under control of Russians now. Yesterday one of our friends became missing and we didn’t know where he is for more then 24 hours. And two of his neighbours were killed and their bodies were just laying by the fence all day long. His wife is there with kids and we were not able to get her out of there.
We had many stressful nights in that basement and the last night we were there my child could not sleep and we made a decision to try to leave Kiev. We found some people from a church who helped evacuate people. They took us out of Kiev.
Right now we are staying in the pastor’s house who we did not know before half way to the point of our destination. It’s safe here for now. They still have air sirens here but nothing is happening. We are scared of every sound and don’t feel safe. We don’t know what is ahead of us. Some of the families who are travelling with us don’t have much money and of course there’s no any income at this time. People are helping us and we are helping those who need help around us.
If you would like to support us you can do it through western union or money gram or ria. And we can still use cards at the store and we can get the money online.
You can send it to my name
Viktoriia Sedletska {via Western Union}
In order to get it I need to know the amount that was sent, the tracking number and from country it’s from.

Thank you”

“An update on the situation here

A group of 22 people was able to leave Kiev and we are close to Slovakian boarder. We are safe here. But can’t enjoy it worrying for those who stayed. And being heartbroken from all of this.

But kids are happy to be safe and together.

Thank you for all your help and prayers. We are staying in a small village right at Slovakian boarder. We are safe here”

And, now, let’s welcome Maryana! Maryana also was a student at Kiev Wesley Bible College in the early 2000s. She and her husband have two young children. Maryana currently lives outside Ukraine, but the rest of her precious family still lives inside the country. Maryana’s family holds a very special place in our hearts—so many intimate memories were made during winter at their home in the village. I feel Maryana’s heart as she writes her feelings here. Gather near and hear her heartbeat.

“You make plans, everything goes according to plan. It seems that you have money, you have all the conditions, you have achieved everything yourself, you can say – l made my self, everyone is healthy.
It cost me alot to make this way, but that was my coal l wanted always more-sometimes more than l can got en After all going through a lot, and now you think I will do what I planned. But not ….
trouble came to us trouble that no one expected. EVERYONE SAID MAYBE AND WILL BE BUT IT WAS JUST WORDS. And now the war has come to us. and all plans, all dreams collapsed and now we all have one dream. That there was no war. very scary, very painful … and very angry, why someone just needs to destroy everything there, and why one person was able to destroy, the dreams of many, who gave him this right.”

Join me in gratitude for these two friends trusting us with their hearts. I appreciate each one sharing her fears, frustrations, passions, anger, and stories. Vita spoke a few days ago of the trauma and fear they are all feeling. And Maryana has a unique backstory—her brother needs daily medication due to his kidney transplant. With the shop closures, Maryana has been worried he’d not be able to get medication. Can’t you just feel the tender ache in each story? You, my dear reader, can be a part of their stories!

How?

Re-read all the action words in the Isaiah passage: break the chains of injustice, get rid of exploitation, free the oppressed, cancel debts, share your food, invite the homeless, clothe the ill-clad, be available, pray, call out for help, get rid of unfair practices, quit blaming victims, quit gossiping, give yourself. There is an abundance of ways to be a part of Vita’s, Maryana’s, and countless others’ stories. If you’ve given all, you can pray! You can cry out for help! If you have something, you always, always have something to share. Lean into this promise—doing this, or giving your all to Jesus, will pave your way (Isaiah 58:7-9). There is always hope because Jesus is Hope.

In my feelings of helplessness, I want to do everything I can to provide help and relief to these strong, precious people. Foremost, pray with me please! Let’s link hearts and call out to our God, our Restorer, our Healer, our Rebuilder, our Redeemer, for help and provision and comfort for our Ukrainian brothers and sisters. If you’d like to donate, I’ve compiled a list of trusted links below.

Ukraine Crisis Fund

https://donate.worldvision.org/give/ukraine-crisis-fund?campaign=400062876&utm_source=AC&utm_medium=Email&utm_campaign=04Mar22SG&utm_content=appeal&acuid=efa414ff4369c9f52b22b87fc9da5c906f5783df77dc34a63bac6ba0c82b7b7b

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Help for Ukraine Refugees

If you’d like to show your support in a tangible and visible way, my brother, Timothy, is offering an “I Support Ukraine” t-shirt where the proceeds from each purchase goes to help Ukrainian refugees. The tees are available in sizes XS-XXL and are printed on three lovely colors. Check them out following the link below:

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1187916103/short-sleeve-unisex-t-shirt?ref=listing_published_alert

How about you and I, right now, steep a cup of tea and pray with and for these friends, their friends and families, the homeless, the refugees, the wounded, the ones mourning loss, the frightened, the soldiers, and the countries involved. We aren’t helpless, and we aren’t hopeless. Come, join forces with me, and let’s fight together on our knees. United. We are warriors in Jesus’ army, and together we can fight in prayer for peace. Because, ultimately, Jesus is our Hope, our Way, our Peace.

***Just a little fun fact: I cultivated my love for hot tea from both my father’s collection of teas there in my family’s Kiev apartment and around Maryana’s family’s table in a western Ukraine village. I remember questioning the variety of tea served and being told it was dried herbs and leaves collected. Whatever the source, the tea was deliciously calming. Don’t we all need a cup of that just now?

****I will update links and sources here as information comes in. ❤️

I wanted a dress for Christmas this year. A new dress. Specifically velvet. There’s just something so Christmassy about a velvet dress. And, realistically, my inner child was delighted by the thought of a twirly emerald or ruby velvet dress.

But this year wasn’t the Christmas for a new dress, velvet or otherwise. Little Ya-ya (thanks, Dad) was sorely disappointed on Christmas Sunday. Don’t we all want to present our best selves to Jesus?

Leaning over the bathroom sink to swipe on a brush of mascara, my Jesus whispered right down deep into the depths of my soul:

I came to a messy manger, an unstable stable, and animal salivated swaddling cloths. There was no velvet, no bows, no finery. Just come as you are. I just want your heart. Let go of perfectionism. I came to an imperfect place, a dirty place, to show you that outward purification is no longer required to have access to God. I am the way, the ladder, the bridge. Come as you are.

I’d searched, tried on, bought, returned velvet dresses, and ultimately ended up mismatched. Imperfect. Nothing matched; my decade old skirt had a hole. Lily forgot her glittery Christmas shoes, and we were walking up to the church doors before I realized she’d put on her clunky, muddy snow boots. She’d left her fancy hat behind. We came as real and authentic as we really are. No best foot forward. No hiding behind velvet and pretenses. Real. Vulnerable.

And no matter because Christmas Sunday was unforgettable. For the first time, I really grasped that in His freedom, I am indeed free. I can simply come as I am.

We’d been taking a peek into the untold stories of Christmas this season at church. Christmas Sunday, pastor unraveled the excruciatingly difficult stories of Mary and Joseph. Their stories that morning wove perfectly into the loving whisper-message Jesus had shared earlier that morning. Everything was as if orchestrated just for me. So personal. So beautiful.

Standing to worship my Jesus, I looked down to see a rainbow there on my boot. A promise. A sign that He’ll always meet me there in my mess, bringing light, bringing beauty. Perhaps it’s when we’re most vulnerable, most imperfect, most real that Jesus can most easily break through to share His love-gifts. He doesn’t want to see the velvet and bows; He wants to see me. He doesn’t want my best self; He just wants me. As I am.

My sister and I were talking this morning about dreams, how upon waking, differentiating between dreams and reality is often difficult. Dreams can be so real. I’m a vivid dreamer—both in nighttime dreams and daydreams. I’ve always been a dreamer, a dreamer who dreams big dreams. Some in my life haven’t appreciated that aspect of my quirky personality (hello enneagram type 4!), and have shattered some of those big dreams until they lay at my feet like tiny, dangerous shards from a broken vessel.

Those devastated dreams, sharp and cutting, can be just as wounding. Because in all the broken places, along all the razor-sharp edges and jagged points, fear creeps in. Fear is suffocating. Once you’ve repeatedly heard “you could never do____,” or “you could never be____,” or my most painful cut, “you’ll never make it in life,” you bury those wounds deep inside until you believe them, and the messages become a part of you, a part of you that desperately needs tender healing.

Working with clay is one of my big dreams. But, I let fear squelch my curiosity, until my dream faded—faded, but didn’t die. A couple months ago, I began The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron course. Immediately, the pottery dream sparked to life. It was kismet, really. Curious again, I explored different classes and avenues to fulfill my clay-working dream.

On a bright Saturday morning, I dressed in play clothes and set off alone to make my dream reality. I was nervous, but this time, my curiosity and enthusiasm won. Drawing strength from my therapy, the Mister, and resilience in my identity in God, I did it!

Just a short walk into my pottery journey, a plethora of lessons have lodged themselves into my heart—the most important being:

DREAM BIG! Never, ever give up on your precious dreams. Stay curious. Walk in wonder. Embrace and love the imperfections because this is where uniqueness is birthed.